What Solo Travel Teaches You: The Power of Traveling Alone

Solo travel. Something I wasn’t interested in when I started traveling in 2010.

I had just turned 30 in January and was determined to go outside my comfort zone and visit Italy and Greece.

But as hard as I tried, I couldn’t find a travel companion. So, I explored the idea of going alone.

I struggled with the many common fears that plague most first-time solo travelers: Will I be lonely, bored, safe, or look like a friendless loser?

How will I cope in a new place? Will I make new friends?

Can I do this? I thought… Spoiler alert: I did it.

Fast-forward nearly ten years, and I will share all the amazing things solo travel taught me and why you should do it!

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What Solo Travel Teaches You

#1. Self-Confidence & Inner Strength

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Do you want to know the best way to improve your self-confidence and inner strength? Take a solo trip.

I promise you it’s not just about trying new things, learning different cultures, and developing new skills. Solo travel experiences strengthen you to your core.

Before traveling alone, I did consider myself a relatively strong and somewhat confident woman. But once you go on a solo trip, you will see just how capable you are in this world. It can be an exciting feeling, as well as terrifying. 

Any time you get to a new destination certain challenges can pop up unexpectedly. I used to look at any inconvenience as a bad thing, but really it’s one of the best things that can help you grow.

All the time on your own is perfect for soul searching. It is the time you can check in with yourself and ask hard questions. For example, am I really happy?

Sometimes you need that alone time in beautiful places to really help open your mind and find your own happiness.

In my personal experiences with solo travel, my life would always shift when I got back home. I learned some valuable lessons about how to make a better relationship with myself and my needs.

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#2. That There is a World of Possibilities

After ripping off that first solo trip band-aid, I woke up to a world of possibilities.

The need to wait for someone to join me no longer held me back. If I desired to go on a solo adventure, I could save money and go. I now saw a great opportunity to see different places on my own terms.

To be fully transparent, I wasn’t a full convert after my first solo trip. If I could have, I still would have preferred to find someone to travel along with.

Since those options were still not presenting themselves when my next trip rolled around, I decided to go ALONE… again.

During this second solo trip, I got much more creative and did more than just two countries! I choose five countries in 3 weeks. It was a bit ambitious, but all of it was worth it in the end. The world opened up to me, and I met new people and learned how to be a solo female traveler.

Deep down, after this trip and getting the hang of going alone, I knew I was starting to prefer it. To this day, I strongly prefer solo travel experiences over group travel.

The skills I was acquiring as a solo traveler was making me a more confident and stronger woman. These strengths were helping me in my career and personal life.

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#3. Compassion and Awareness

If we are lucky, we will get the opportunity to grow into more self-aware beings. Traveling will open the doors to our minds and fill it with experiences. I have been forever changed by visiting foreign countries.

Travel can be so many different things to so many people. The most popular reason to travel is to relax. I look at my holidays and approach them in an entirely different way. My travel style is to immerse and learn.

For me, the most important thing is to meet the local people and learn about their daily lives. Someday, I see my vacations becoming more of a chill by the beach, but not now.

You learn a lot about a place when you set out to be part of it. Befriending locals, and listening to their stories is something really magical.

Your compassion for people and their ways of life starts to become a part of your story. Years of solo travel have really opened my eyes to the world around me. I am a better person with more compassion and awareness than in years before solo travel.

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#4. How To Release Fear & Insecurity

It didn’t happen instantly, but there is no denying that by traveling alone, I slowly lost my feelings of fear and insecurity. I was becoming a more self-assured woman, and it felt great. I also learned to become my own best friend.

The first of my fears, I let go, was eating alone in public. With time, the insecurity I felt walking into a restaurant and asking for a table for one was gone. Just not giving a shit what anyone was thinking is a very freeing feeling. I became very comfortable on my own enjoying a meal and picture edits on my phone to pass the time.

My fears of what other people thought of my solo traveling were something that lingered, but not for too long.

When you do start solo traveling, you will need to be prepared to answer questions from family and friends. In some cases, you may need actually to defend your choices. I have been lucky to have a supportive circle, but I have answered these questions from strangers.

Just remember, most people are just too scared to attempt this themselves, so they project their fear onto you.

#5. Let Go & Get Past Limiting Beliefs

One of the most important lessons I learned from solo travel was I could do anything.

These small moments when I realized, hey I am in Greece by myself, were really empowering! Once you get out there in the world, you see all your limiting beliefs slowly fade. After so many solo trips overseas, I started to grow a strong desire to live in Europe. I let go of limiting beliefs that it would be impossible for me without a European partner or job offer stop me from pursuing a move.

It was on my trip around Europe in 2016, 3 years after I had declared to myself that I wanted to move to a new country! I was ready to live in an unfamiliar place and let the opinions of others telling me it wasn’t going to work go.

The foreign country I would eventually move to was Germany! I loved the idea of learning a foreign language and found that one of the best places in Germany to live would be Berlin.

It took a lot of work and inner courage to get to the point where I was ready to do it. And I can attribute my years of traveling alone to what gave me more strength to make this happen!

All the courage I had gained from solo traveling was the final ingredient that helped me let go of limiting beliefs and make the move.

My Message to You

Writing this blog was something I should have started a long time ago. But, there is no place in my life for regrets, so I believe it is coming at the right time now.

Besides, becoming a travel expert takes years, and when I started this blog I had a decade of solo travel under my belt.

I had to live the benefits and pros and cons of solo travel before I could write about them in this travel blog.

I grew a lot as a woman from the years of thirty to forty, and I want to share my wisdom. It can be so hard in this world to forgive ourselves for the things we did that didn’t turn out perfect.

I have had to forgive myself for a lot of goals and expectations that I didn’t personally meet.

What I realized is that by not meeting those personal goals, I made room for other achievements.

So, my message to you is to be kind to yourself, have an open mind, and book that plane ticket. I am always planning that next solo trip and urging you to take that first step to book yours!

Look at the accomplishments you have made, and don’t be afraid to try something new. Traveling solo might be just the thing you need!

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